人到了一定的年紀，就要懂得靜而不爭，萬般隨緣。來者要惜，去者要放。如果無能為力，那就順其自然，如果心無所待，那就隨遇而安。

世間萬物本來就沒有是非對錯，只是在於你的一念之間。愚者易怒如虎，智者平静如水。簡單一點，生活本來就没有那麼複雜。

這陣子婆婆因爲腿傷住在醫院及復健中心，把老婆大人忙壞了，心疼啊！

弘一法師的智慧

凡是你想控制的，其實都控制了你；當你什麼都不要的時候，天地都是你的。大道至簡，無慾則剛；無為則無所不為。

Whatever you seek to control, in fact, controls you. When you desire nothing, the whole world is yours. The great truth is simple: with no desires, you become strong; by doing nothing, nothing is left undone.

遇見了是因爲有債要還，離開是因為還清了。前世不欠，今生不見；今生相見，必有虧欠。

不要害怕失去，你所失去的，本來就不屬於你；也不要害怕傷害，能傷害你的，都是你的劫數；繁華三千，看談即是浮雲，煩惱無數，想開就是晴天。

你以為錯過了會是遺憾，其實可能躲過了一劫。別貪心，你不可能什麼都擁有；也別灰心，你不可能什麼都沒有。所願所不願，不如心甘情願；所得所不得，不如心安理得。

有些事上天讓你做不成，那是在保護你；別抱怨、別生氣，世間萬物都是有定數的，得到的未必是福。

happy hour at Bayou Hights Bier Garten https://maps.app.goo.gl/XMqHhuBA3fubVGNV6?g_st=ac

今天是 jury duty, 10:00 報到，12:00 解散🤣

好好生活，別想太多。

該忘的忘，該放的放。

讓心歸零，微笑前行; 心寬。福自來。

New home is finally completed, this is the view for the living area, you can see kitchen as well

Here the view from the kids’ room

Here’s the view from the master bedroom

This is where all started, first house tour last year, you can see how it looks like before the remodeling.

Pictures from the house tour

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